Book Review | Gracefully Grayson: Beautiful LGBTQ+ Book

Alone at home, twelve-year-old Grayson Sender glows, immersed in beautiful thoughts and dreams. But at school, Grayson grasps at shadows, determined to fly under the radar. Because Grayson has been holding onto a secret for what seems like forever: “he” is a girl on the inside, stuck in the wrong gender’s body. The weight of this secret is crushing, but leaving it behind would mean facing ridicule, scorn, and rejection. Despite these dangers, Grayson’s true self itches to break free. Strengthened by an unexpected friendship and a caring teacher who gives her a chance to step into the spotlight, Grayson might finally have the tools to let her inner light shine. (via Goodreads)

Source: Received for review (thank you!) ❤

Note: Grayson referred to herself as “Grayson” for the majority of this book, so that is the name I will be using in this review. Additionally, I apologize in advance for anything that may come across as offensive. Please let me know about it and I will fix it.

This book made me cry rainbow tears. It’s a fantastic book about the issues LGBTQ+ people face, and it’s truthful and raw.


Grayson is just twelve years old, but she’s already starting to feel the oppression from her family, friends, and classmates. She’s already a loner, and has been ever since her best friend, Emma, moved to Florida years ago. What I like about this book is that it hits the nail on the head. It’s really intended as a Middle-Grade Realistic Fiction book, but it doesn’t sugarcoat anything for younger readers. Nor is it assumed that twelve-year-olds are somehow sweeter and nicer than sixteen-year-olds; Grayson faces the same challenges that one would imagine a teenager revealing she is transgender would face.

Her classmates all gave very realistic reactions, as did her teenage cousin, Jack, and the rest of her family. Not all of them hate her for being transgender, and not all of the people who hate her respond in the same way. Grayson was caught in the middle. She responds as any twelve-year-old would do: she gets scared.

The reactions each person gave turned into mini-arcs, and I loved ALL of them, especially Jack’s. Jack is a teenager. He’s in seventh grade (er… correct me if I’m wrong, but aren’t you supposed to be twelve in seventh grade?) and just starting to cope with problems of his own. So when his little cousin sort-of-kind-of-maybe reveals that she’s transgender, Jack starts to throw her out of the “people I love category.” I loved the realistic way the word “gay” was used to describe Grayson. I’m not saying that it’s the right word–the right word to describe her would be transgender–but the way Jack and several other characters throughout the novel called Grayson “gay” just showed the misnomers and little respect we have for LGBTQ+ people in our community. I am lucky enough to attend a high school where we are encouraged to support and embrace LGBTQ+ people, but no matter how much education some people receive, THEY JUST DON’T GET IT. (I’m looking at you, Steven Moffat!)

Amelia was a… a… *insert strong swear word here*. At the beginning of the school year, Grayson makes friends with a girl named Amelia. And I can’t tell you what happens next, but I CAN tell you I just wanted to strangle her for the majority of the book.

A play is used, but in a very non-cheesy way. You know how some books use plays as major parts of their plots? Yeah, Gracefully Grayson is one of them. But it was just AMAZING. The cast of members in the play came to represent the wide range of reactions Grayson gets. And Paige, just AJSHFJWFHDWIUHA you’re the best. Also, I wanted more of Finn, the play director and teacher who helps Grayson. Not in the story, persay–it was pretty much perfect the way it was–but maybe a novella or short story about what happens to Finn? Pretty please?? *puppy dog eyes*

There are no plot twists, but CHARACTER DEVELOPMENT keeps you reading. Honestly, Ami, you were BORN to write this novel. It’s not like Fangirl or Since You’ve Been Gone, in which you don’t know the ending, and that keeps you reading, really. It’s more YOU NEED TO KNOW that Grayson is okay and that she can be a she and be accepted and that Jack and Amelia are going to stop being awful to her. All the character development was so beautiful, and I swear EVERY SINGLE CHARACTER had a little bit all to themselves. Excuse me while I go sob in a corner for a little while.

I loved the part Grayson’s parents played in the book. Although Grayson’s parents died in a car crash when she was little, Grayson still wonders about them often. She wants to know what it would have been like to have a mother and father, and if they would be different from her aunt and uncle, who raised her. She wants to know if they would accept her for who she is, a boy who is really a girl. I have seen so many YA novels where the protagonist’s parents are no longer around (or worse: when they are still around, in the same house), and they don’t devote a single line to them. But although Grayson can’t remember her parents, she has her mother’s artwork, pictures, and stuffed animals. And they play this beautiful part in his realization of who she really is, and… I can’t *wails*

OVERALL: *sniffles* Overall, this book was the epitome of perfection in a YA/MG novel. I am not a transgender person myself, and so I don’t know if this is a completely accurate representation, but I loved it.

5/5 Wagging Tails

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10 responses to “Book Review | Gracefully Grayson: Beautiful LGBTQ+ Book

  1. This book is on my to-read-and-review list for Reading The Rainbow! It sounds awesome, and I’m always glad to find LGBTQ+ for younger-than-YA readers. 🙂

    Just one little thing, though: If Grayon’s a girl, then “she” pronouns should actually be used, not “he.”

    • Yay! It’s a beautiful, beautiful book, and I am so glad that Polonsky wrote it for MG readers instead of YA readers. While there aren’t possibly enough trans books out there for young adults, there CERTAINLY aren’t enough for middle graders! 😀

      I used “he” pronouns because that is how Grayson referred to himself for the majority of the book. (Grayson only starts referring to him/herself as a she at the very end of the book, so I didn’t want to use “she” ahead of time.) I’m sorry if I’ve offended anyone! 😦

  2. *marks for TBR list* THAT COVER
    From your review, this reminds me a little of Will Grayson, Will Grayson. Weird that the names are so similar! 😛

    Also, I don’t mean to be rude, but isn’t ‘persay’ spelt as ‘per se’? (That would be how I’d spell it, anyway. Maybe you learnt it differently!)

    • YES I KNOW. *squees in delight* Hm, I’ve never read Will Grayson, Will Grayson. It IS on my TBR though…

      Ooh… is it? 😛 I’ve always been a bit of a bad speller… Idk, I just spell stuff phonetically most of the time, and if my computer underlines it in red, then it’s wrong. 😛

      • WG is kind of an odd one. Oh, and one more thing- they have a play in it too! 🙂

        I’m a strong believer in spellcheck! Proof-read that homework? Nah, just spellcheck it. 😛

        • I don’t know, I’ve heard Will Grayson, Will Grayson is kind of a hit and miss novel: either you love it, or you don’t. Hm, interesting similarities… I might just have to check it out. I’ve never read David Leviathan before, but I did sorta-kinda-enjoy Paper Towns and TFiOS by John Green. Only thing was, the characters were SOOOOO pretentious in both of them!

          Yes! Spellcheck! Though of late I’ve been having to handwrite all of my assignments to prevent “cheating,” so has become my BSCF (best spell-checker forever) 😛

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  4. I just finished readinh this book. I loved it. I am so glad i was given this book. My son/daughter came out to me n her whole school a few months ago. She is going to fifth grade..just ten years old. I have been so proud of her since the day she came out. But this book took me inside to see some of the fears she might have had before during and after coming out. One thing is for sure. She is definitely a happy little girl now when she used to be a sad little boy.

    • I’m not trans and I don’t know anyone who is trans, but it is certainly beautiful. I love love LOVE that you are such a supportive parent. There are so many mothers who just don’t accept their kids as who they are, and that’s just wrong. I’m so happy she’s happier now! 😀

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